Fans of evicted BBNaija housemate, Ozoemena Joseph Chukwu were shocked when the handsome reality Tv show star was evicted yesterday. His love interest, Nengi broke down in tears immediately Ebuka announced that he has been evicted. Leaving the house, Ozo said to Nengi “Nengi take care of yourself, I love you”
Ozo’ s relationship with Nengi is one that many Nigerians see as a one sided ‘situationship’ where his love for her wasn’t reciprocated.
So why didn’t Nigerians vote for him?
- He focused too much on the ‘Nengi factor’
Ozo is a personality who was unabashed about his love for Nengi to the point that it affected his game. He got his second strike because he wrote Nengi a love note, an action which contravened one of the rules of the game, which stated that there should not be any kind of secret.
- He showed them a kind of love they weren’t used too
Most Nigerians called Ozo different derogatory names because he dared to show us a different kind of love we weren’t used to. According to Selfhimprovement.com: “A lot of men seem to have difficulty expressing love towards people who they do undeniably love. This means that men will go to great lengths to avoid any behavior that may be perceived as soft or womanly. Traditional masculinity has encouraged men to shy away from deep, loving bonds”.
So when most men and women saw Ozo display this kind of love to Nengi, they perceived it as being feminine and anti-male .
- Nigerians thought he had focus
For making satisfying Nengi one of his chief aims on the show, many of the people who had been voting for him and supporting him relentlessly, decided to withdraw their support.
All in all, with his exceptional qualities and work ethic, Ozo is definitely destined for greatness.