Nollywood star and producer, Funke Akindele-Bello, has revealed that her friends are not allowed to call her husband.
The filmmaker who just launched a new TV series ‘Aiyetoro Town’ noted that her friends will need to respect her personal space.
According to her: “Your personal space is your personal space. Your friend cannot come to your house, your husband can know your best friend, can say hello to them, but why will you be calling my husband on the phone? You can only call him except it is on his birthday. You just call him to say hello? Why should you do that? “, she said on a Your View, a popular TV show.
Funke who recently launched her YouTube channel in one of the episodes of her vlog stated how she almost gave up acting. Akindele-Bello noted that her mother was among those, who encouraged her not to quit the industry.
“I am going to be very personal here, talk about some things I’ve been through in life and liken them to whatever you are going through right now.
“Many young people are going through a lot to survive. Struggles, challenges, obstacles and they may want to give up.
“I want you to look at me and my story. When I started acting in 1998, I remember how I struggled to get up there, I got a lot of “no’s”. I was the ‘queen’ of auditions and ‘wakapass’ roles. I would read so well and people will clap, I will be so excited and would think when I get the list, I would get a supporting role. But all I got were roles like church extracts. I remember crying on those occasions.
“But my mother would tell me that I’ve got the passion and it is a God-given talent. She would give me money for my transport fare; sometimes I would trek to some places then take a bus to meet up.
“I could count the number of shoes I had then, maybe two or three. But today, the story has changed. Things changed for me positively.
“After ‘I need to know’, I didn’t get any more roles, I went down; I got back to attending auditions and lobbying, calling people and knocking on doors but none opened. I felt I had lost my chance.
“I can remember going for a project and I met an actress who spoke to the producer on my behalf. I remember going to Oshogbo for the movie, I packed all my clothes, I was so happy because I was told I was going to play a supporting role. I got there, and we were supposed to film but something happened to the generator and we couldn’t film. I was waiting to be called to film in my hotel room but they did not.
“On the fifth day, they called me and I was shocked. I was asked to play the role of a secretary in two scenes. This was after playing a major role in ‘I need to know’. It was devastating for me, I was crying but an actor advised me to take it.
“I took the stipends I was given and went back to Lagos. There were different situations like that where I could have given up but my mother’s words kept encouraging me till I got my big break to produce my own movie.
“So, do not give up, be expectant,” she said.