Many of us engage in sexual pleasure a lot but have little or no idea if our partner is enjoying the fun as much as we do. Oftentimes than none we just assume that what we are feeling is what our partner is feeling also.
In most cases, men have been found guilty of this offence, this is so because a woman’s body is very sensitive and needs a lot of caressing before a woman can be stimulated into enjoying sex, whereas for men we don’t need much caressing before we can enjoy good sex. Although they are exceptions to this, as some men need to be caressed to be put in the mood.
Some of us may wonder why will our partner not enjoy sex with us? Well according to Dr. Lori Lawrenz, a clinical psychologist specializing in sexual health, he said that a lack of interest in sex can strike anyone at any time, and in many cases, it’s due to something completely unrelated to the relationship. like stress at work, or exhaustion.
The question now comes, how then do we now tell if our partner is enjoying sex with us, or we actually gave our partner good sex of his/her lifetime?
I will be writing out the basic feedback one can use to judge if his/her partner is enjoying sex with them, and if you don’t get these feedbacks, then you need to up your game;
Making pleasurable sounds during sex is one way to tell that your partner is enjoying sex with you. These sounds, for the most part, are in the form of moaning. Moaning sounds can also make your partner feel more aroused, and for men is a great way to tell that they are doing a good job. It is also important to note that men moan during sex.
This is the climax of all sexual experiences. It is a powerful feeling of sexual pleasure and sensation, which includes a discharge of accumulated erotic tension. It is important that both partners reach orgasm during sexual pleasures and it is a way of telling that your partner had a good sex experience with you. It is also worthy to note that orgasm has its health importance.
A cohort study published in 1997 suggested that the risk of mortality was considerably lower in men with a high frequency of orgasm than men with a low frequency of orgasm. There is some evidence that frequent ejaculation might reduce the risk of prostate cancer.
They tell you:
This normally happens for couples who are not shy and are open to each other. When she enjoys sex with you, she says it after the exercise. Some even say it at the climax of the sex out of the abundance of the pleasure you are making them enjoy.
Should you have sex again with your partner be sure to look out for these signs and give yourself credits for a job well done.