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Welcome to the first edition of Sarah Babs Uncensored, the new ‘Sextacular’ column that educates you on how to ignite your sex life and relationship. It promises to be your irresistible Saturday tonic.
Are you looking for something to really up the gamble on your sex life that doesn’t involve putting on a sexy maid outfit? Meaning, are you looking for a way to boost orgasms and connection in a way that is passionate and connective? Try out tantric sex.
Tantric sex is a slow, sexy, emotional form of sex that practitioners and gurus believe has the ability to breed intimacy between partners. But it can be a little complicated.
Below are 5 easy tantric sex positions for beginners. Remember, the key to all of these positions is to go slowly and set the mood with dim lighting and slow jams.
Lotus
Known in Tantra as Yab Yum, the Lotus is amazing for female orgasm. It gets you up close and personal for deep, passionate kissing and right against your partner’s pubic bone for carefree clitoral stimulation.
Have your partner sit on the bed or couch and straddle him or her, face-to-face. Rock back and forth. This position is super intimate and sexy, which is probably why it is the most famous Tantric sex position of all.
Comin’ Cobra
This take on the classic cowgirl gives you much needed clit access as well as face-to-face intimacy. Get on top of your partner. Once he or she is inside of you, swing your legs back so that you’re lying flat against your partner.
Your bodies should be perfectly aligned. Rest on your forearms on his or her chest for extra lift. You’re essentially in a baby cobra position, only with your partner (or toy) inside of you.
Keep in mind this position is not always comfortable for everyone. Do what feels good for you.
Reverse seated
I don’t know about you, but reverse cowgirl can actually be a pain. The reverse seated position takes all of the thigh burn out of it and adds in some much needed skin-on-skin action with your partner.
Have your partner kneel and lower yourself while backwards. He or she can wrap his or her arms around you, like a backward hug. Rock in a rhythmic motion for soothing love making.
No Frills Cunnilingus
One of the things that make two people feel emotionally close during sex is serious attention to foreplay. If your partner can give you truly spectacular cunnilingus, he or she is on his or her way to being a Tantra pro already.
Tantra involves getting in on every one of your senses, including taste and smell. Meaning, some eye-opening head is on the table. Lie on your back and have him or her go to town, only slowly. You want to practice edging; the longer you can tease out your orgasm, the more connected you’ll feel in your body (and to your partner).
Flat Standing Doggy
This position gives you all the deep g-spot stimulation of doggy style, with much more intimate connection. Lie across the bed, stomach face down and feet on the floor. Have your partner stand behind you and enter you from behind.
Turn your head for sexy, erotic kisses. Have your partner lace his or her hands into your hair for extra control.
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