Controversial relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin has urged Nigerian men to stop spending money or projecting wealth to any lady they are interested in. He said the first stimulus you present in an experiment If pleasurable must be repeated or continued If you want to keep your test subjects interests remaining intact.
In his words:”These same men later complain that ladies ask them for money too much, these ladies present them with a reservoir of requests & when there’s no money or gifts there’s nothing to talk about. FRIENDSHIP SHOULD COME FIRST BEFORE SPENDING MONEY. The major problem with our generation regarding relationships is that ” sex ” is now synonymous with “money”. Men believe that if they don’t spend money or show off their assets, house, cars ladies won’t pay them any attention which is TRUE and also ladies because of peer pressure, unavailability of jobs, recession mentality, hardships believe that money shows love & caring. Being broke to some ladies is a crime which warrants insults or derogatory names.
“Fellas, don’t spend 1 kobo on her first, take her on dates, play snake and ladder, play ludo with her, take her to have drinks or movies. Don’t start with materialistic things. Let’s put a stop to Money before Love. Love should come before money”.
Many recognize Joro as a 21st-century love guru who has built an impressive presence on social media. Adejoro Olumofin, became popular for his interactive approach to controversial topics on Instagram. According to reports, he receives about 800 emails weekly from people who desire relationship advice.