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Nigeria’s self-proclaimed love doctor and relationship coach, Joro Olumofin who is known for his unusual relationship counsel has said women need contingency boyfriends.
The controversial relationship expert said women need to have back-up-boyfriends to avoid being heartbroken.
He wrote on Instagram: “With the level of heartbreak and depression amongst ladies who just got out of relationships, I believe it’s time for ladies to have a “CONTINGENCY BOYFRIEND” ; a backup boyfriend.
“Who is a contingency boyfriend? A contingency boyfriend is a guy who fits all your criteria of a husband material but is your platonic friend ( no sex involved). You talk to him often, you hang out with him and involve him in your daily activities, he’s aware of your boyfriend. A lot of ladies are facing emotional hardships in their breakup and being rebounded by at least 5 Guys risking high body counts till they find another boyfriend.
“ I strongly suggest that every lady in a relationship should have a backup boyfriend who she can marry 6 months after her breakup in other to avoid Depression and the rebound / waiting syndrome. #ThinkLikeAMan 90% of men have Contingency Girlfriends. That’s why after a breakup men get married 3 months later”.
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His counsel has triggered various reactions from his followers on Instagram.
Read the comments below
@Precious: And you think they will keep an aside boyfriend and not have sex with him? …
@King Larry: I used to think you have sense, but apparently, common sense isn’t common. I’m sure all that should have been in your skull is what gives you that thick forest you call beards. Advising NIGERIAN ladies to have a spare BF? You know these ladies, it would be more than that, and if you ask them, they will say ”JORO SAID WE CAN HAVE A SPARE BOYFRIEND. Or CHEAT. STUPID BROTHER!
@Oneguylikethat: Surprised to have read this, dear joro, I see the angle ur coming from, Bt you failed to point out that between a guy and a girl, a girl is more of an emotional person than a guy, that’s why guys cheat anyhow without a single care in the world, there’s no way a girl would have a guy like that, whom she thinks as being a back up boyfriend and not actually feel anything for the guy, at a point in time, the original boyfriend would have to be in competition with another guy cos she would definitely constantly compare them both and this would eventually lead to the early demise of the relationship…I understand your point of view, but i strongly and vehemently disagree with you…saying stuff like this would jeopardize many relationships even tho you actually meant well…my 2 cents.